Wednesday, November 11, 2009

40 years old and A special gift


Today is my 40th Birthday.


I'm the same age as Sesame Street,


The Brady Bunch

and a little clothing store called The Gap.

I was born the year man walked on the moon for the first time

and my mom missed out on Woodstock

because I was in her belly.


I came into the world at the end of a crazy decade and the beginning of a strange one. I remember almost all of the 70s, was a teenager in the 80s, had both of my kids in the 90s and found the love of my life in this decade, that we're about to say goodbye to this January..... wow.

So the question is..... Do I feel that old?
No.
In fact I feel like I'm still pretty young until someone asks me what year I was born and I have to say 1969. Then I remember my mom saying "Think how I feel" LOL

What have I learned?

That life goes by in the blink of an eye and if you don't remember to appreciate the little, as well as the big moments, they'll be gone before you know it.


You never know how long we have on this earth, so tell your loved ones how much you love them while they're here and while they can still understand what you're saying.

Love can be found at any age and marriage can be fun if you're with the right person.


You need to keep a sense of humor no matter what.


That friends will come and go, but there's a reason for every friendship.

Speaking of friendship....

My special gift came in the form of a request. Kim of Dear Daisy Cottage ....

asked me to guest post for her. I think most of you know she's the reason I started blogging in the first place, so I think it's the perfect 40th birthday gift that she chose me to do a post for her.
Love you Kim :)

Go see what I have to say by clicking 'here'.


Happy Birthday to me ;)

hugs and love,
rue



124 sweet friends said...:

Jennifer Froh said...

Happy Birthday Rue! Hope it's filled with love :)
Jenny

michele (maryland) said...

Happy Happy Birthday, Rue. You are a wonderful, beautiful person. Enjoy your year.

Daisy Cottage said...

Happy Birthday Rue!

I hope it is your best one EVER and know how much we all love you.

Love,
Kim

Kasey said...

happy birthday sweet rue...
xo

marilyn said...

Happy Birthday.......as the Hallmark card says
40 looks good on you. Enjoy your day and
many more.

Claudia said...

Happy Birthday, Rue! Hope your day is filled with light and love.

the wild raspberry said...

Hope you have a day filled with fun and love!
Happy Birthday Sweetie.
You are absolutely gorgeous~
Chasity

Kari said...

Happy Birthday! Hope you have a wonderful year!

Holly Hills Primitives said...

Happy, happy birthday! You were born the same year as my son and daughter-in-law. That was quite a year!!! I'll bet your mom and I would have LOTS to talk about. Hope you day is filled with nothing but love and happiness, Dawn

Jo said...

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday Dear Heather, Happy Birthday to you!!!


I hope you day is filled with joy and laughter!!!

Lynns Lovelies said...

Happy Birthday sweet Rue!!
I can't believe how close our birthdays are to each other:)
Hope you have a fantastic day today!!
Having a tough time posting on Kim's blog, but will keep on trying:)

Hugs,
Lynn♥

~Let FREEDOM Ring!~

kenju said...

Happy Birthday, Rue. You are so beautiful! You share a birthday with my first serious boyfriend (but we don't talk about him here at home...LOL)

My Vintage Modern Farmhouse... said...

Happy Birthday Rue!! You are only 40.....you are just a baby!! I hope your day is awesome. I left you a message on Kim's blog too.

LeAnn

Gaston Studio said...

Happy birthday {{{Rue}}}!!

black eyed susans kitchen said...

Happy Birthday Rue!!! Have a wonderful day and I hope your 40th year brings you all your heart desires.
♥, Susan

Rosie said...

Happy Birthday Rue! The saying is true that you're only as old as you feel. Enjoy your day!
Rosie

~Lavender Dreamer~ said...

Happy Birthday! Your blog is delightful and you are definitely a 'young' 40! ENJOY!

Diva Kreszl said...

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY dear sweet Rue! You are a beautiful woman, inside and out and we here in blogland truly appreciate you sharing your words and photos with us. You're still a young thing my dear, and yet so wise...enjoy everyday!!! It's a gift...

Honorablyfallen said...

Happy birthday my newly found Miss Rue! You are already a delight! -Sarahlynn

TRICIA @ The Zoo said...

Happy Birthday, Rue. This was a lovely post. Here's to a fantastical 40th year!

XO*Tricia

Gloria J W said...

Happy Birthday to you...Happy Birthday to you....Happy Birthday sweet Rue....Happy Birthday to you. Hip..Pip...Hooray....and a wonderful birthday to you my friend. 40 is just a number Rue...and life is sweet if you have your loved ones around you!! Enjoy your day... Rainbow smiles...from a slighlty damp Queensland...love Gloria

Cindy ~ My Romantic Home said...

Happy 40th!!! I hope you have a great day! 40s are the new 20s! LOL!

Anonymous said...

Happy Bithday!!! Hope you have a great day. Jennifer

Andrea Villarreal said...

Happy Birthday! May your 40th year be one of your best:)

Nancy said...

Happy Birthday, Rue! Enjoy your day!

Nancy

jerseygirl211 said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RUE!!!!!!!

40 is only a number......in my mind, I am still 16......of course that is NOT what my outside tells me. :(

Enjoy your day with may more happy ones to come.

Hugs
'D'

Tam said...

Happy Birthday!

salmagundi said...

Happy Birthday and congrats on a life well lived. Sally

Suzann @ The Olive Cottage said...

Happy birthday to a woman who is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. May your 40th be the most amazing year of your life.

Shelia said...

Happy Birthday, Dear Sweetness! Sweet sweet post and I saw your guest post over at Kim's! What a story! I pray you have the most fantastic birthday!
You are the Birthday Sweetie,
Shelia ;)

Rechelle ~Walnuthaven Cottage~ said...

Happy Birthday to you! I hope your day is a fantastic one.
P.S. you're just one year younger then I am :0)

Shannon said...

Happy birthday! I hope it is a fabulous one! They say 40 is the new 30 by the way. :-) Best wishes for a great day!

Mary / Mariah said...

Happy Birthday sweet friend ,
Hope you have a fun day .
I enjoy your blog . Always a fun read , and those pictures really tell the story .
Mary / Mariah

Jocelyn said...

Happy 40th! MIne was last year.. I dont feel or look 40 , so far thats holding up well !

You look fabulous for 40, not a day over31 :)

Helen said...

... adding to the list of friends wishing you a happy 40th birthday!

Snappy Di said...

I loved being 40. I'd do it all over again! Happy Birthday, Rue.

Di
The Blue Ridge Gal

Karen said...

Have a great day!

Kathi said...

Happy Happy Birthday, Dear Rue!! You don't look a day over 30!

Also, Thank you to your husband for serving our country!! We appreciate the freedom and safety we have. God bless the USA and God bless you. Kathi

Cheri said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET HEATHER...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! I wish I could say I was 40!

Have a wonderful day.

Laura Ingalls Gunn said...

40 has NEVER looked so good! (I can say that because I'm 41. :)

Have a wonderful day and a glorious year.

Jill said...

Have to say I think that is the cutest birthday post I have ever seen!!
Happy Birthday! And take it from me, the 50s are even better.

mishebe said...

Great words, i feel i have learned the same things.. mishelle

Janice said...

Happy Birthday

Shari @ My Cottage of Bliss said...

Happy (belated) birthday, Rue! Hope it was wonderful. It has been a while since I was 40 but I remember my 40's well and with much fondness. They were some of THE BEST years of my life!

Deb said...

Happy Birthday Rue!

Diane said...

Happy Birthday what a beautiful 40 year old woman you are! Enjoy!

Vicki's Bit-o-earth said...

Happy Happy Birthday Dear Rue!!! What a great post about birthdays and life! Thank you for sharing~ xx Vicki

Sherri S said...

Happy happy birthday! And I certainly don't think 40 is old, cause heck I'm a tad over that! ;-)
What an honor to guest for Kim, she is SUCH a sweetie. Off to check you out there too.

{ L } said...

What a fun and sweet photo the crown and camera pic is!

Happy SWEET Birthday to you! And you are SO right....life goes so quickly. It was fun seeing the stuff that went on in your decade. :D

karen said...

Happy Birthday. I turned 51 in oct. I don't fell old either. Have a great day.You are still just a baby compared to me.

Leslie said...

Happy birthday!!! :)

Joanna @ The Casa said...

Happy Birthday Rue! You look great, have a great attitude and deserve nothing but the best! Have a great day!

9405018--Pat said...

HAPPY BRITHDAY! I know how your mom feels..today is my son 40th birthday also...have a great day.

tara said...

Happy birthday Rue!! enjoy each moment...even the tiny ones! xoxo

Betty said...

Rue, please stop over to our chat room.
Happy Birthday!

Betty

linda said...

Happy Happy Birthday Rue! I hope it's one of your best ever!

Jo - To a Pretty Life said...

Happy Birthday Sweet Rue! I hope you are having a wonderful day. It's my mom's birthday today too. She's now 57. We're having her over for dinner.
~Jo

Happy To Be/ Gl♥ria said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY My sweet friend...your still looking great girl....Birthday love and hugs to you Heather....hugs and smiles Gl♥ria

adsgram said...

Happy Birthday, Rue! Mine was the 10th, and if you think you feel a bit old every once in awhile, you should see the looks on people's faces when I tell them I was born "in the FIRST half of the LAST Century" LOL

Enjoy your day!

Lynne
dlynne172@yahoo.com

Gina said...

Happy Birthday Rue! Loved your guest post over at The Daisy Cottage!

Peggy said...

Have a good one!

Peggy

Not The Rockefellers said...

Happy Birthday
Have a Sweet One :)

Peace ~ Rene

Catherine Holman said...

Happy Birthday sweet Rue! Congrats on being Kim's guest blogger! What a great day all around!
Hugs,
Cathie

Carrie said...

Happy Birthday girl I hope its a great one!

♥Carrie

Our really empty nest said...

WOw thats alot of birthday wishes! You are very loved here in blogville, as I know you are in your "real" life! Hope its a great one! Sue

Mary Ellen (megardengal) said...

Happy Birthday Rue!! Love all those pictures of you and the one with your little crown is adorable!!

blessings
mary

Ramona said...

Happy Birthday Rue! This is a great post...I hope that you are having a great day.

Smiles ~ Ramona

Grammy Linda / Behind My Red Door said...

Happy Birthday Rue!! I am so happy you get to celebrate the big 40 with Rich and your kids by your side, in your new old house!! May this be the best year yet!!

Tammy of Yarborough House said...

Happy birthday dear blog friend. And 40 is young. Enjoy the next 40 years with Rich.

tammy

Tracy said...

Happy Bithday Rue! Welcome to the 40's girl. Hope you have a great year!
Tracy

Julie said...

Happy Birthday my sweet friend Rue! I hope you get all your birthday wishes. Wish Annie a belated birthday wish from me I've been gone and just seen that i missed it:)
Many Blessings for the both of you
julie

Anonymous said...

My very best birthday wishes to you and Annie!
How is the fireplace reno coming along? xoxo the fan

Cathy said...

Happy Birthday to you...
Happy Birthday to you...
Happy Birthday dear Rue...
Happy Birthday to you!!!

I hope you have an amazing B-day sweet lady!!!

Enjoy!!!
XOXO
Cathy

MimiG said...

Happy Birthday Rue! It looks as though you and Rich had a beautiful place to spend some time together.
MimiG

aimee said...

happy birthday my beautiful friend! wishing you the best birthday :) love the post.
blessings,
aimee

Cherry's Jubilee said...

Happppppppppy Birthday Rue!!!! Hope it is special and magical! Cherry

Jessica said...

I hear our 40's ROCK! I wish you the very very best Rue!

Carolyn said...

Happy Birthday to YOU!

Michelle@Fromhousetohome said...

Happy Birthday Rue!! So exciting about your guest post, it was wonderful. I had to comment both places just to be sure you knew how much I enjoyed it. :)
~Michelle

Pearls To Hide My Neck said...

Happy Birthday, Rue! My 40th waas probably one of my best birthdays ever! Hope you have a fantastic year!

Deb's Country Crafts said...

Happy Birthday to you Happy Birthday to you Happy birthday Dear Rue Happy Birthday to you!

Erin said...

Happy Birthday Rue! You look absolutely beautiful!

Grandma Yellow Hair said...

Happy Birthday to YOU Rue!
What a wonderful birthday post. I love it. You are beautiful and your writing is too.
Enjoy this year and all the rest
Maggie

The Summer Kitchen Girls said...

Happy Happy Birthday Rue!!
Karla & Karrie

Buttercup said...

Happy 40th and wishes for many years of good health and happiness! Have a wonderful celebration.

Felicia said...

Happiest of birthdays to you :)

~Beth~ said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RUE!!!!! HUGS!!!

I hope you had a wondeful day!

Joyce said...

Happy Birthday and many more!
Joyce

maría cecilia said...

Hello Rue, have a very happy birthday!!!! I have loved the story of your dreamed home in Daisy Cottage´s blog.
Muchos cariños
María Cecilia, from Chile

Julia @ Hooked on Houses said...

Loved your guest post at Kim's place. Hope you had a beautiful birthday!! :-)

Darla said...

Happy Birthday Rue!!!

Cynthia's Cottage Design said...

Hi Rue,

Love this post! You had me giggling and also being so happy for you!!I'm glad I found some time today to stop in and visit, perfect timing because now I can wish a sweetie HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! ok, maybe a few days late, but glad I got it said :)

I just went through a few of your other posts, and you have such a great way with words , I felt like I was there! :)

Have a great weekend Rue, enjoy friend!!

Hugs, Cynthia

Beverly said...

I wish you a year filled with joy and love. Have a wonderful birthday.

I turned seventeen the year you were born, and I was in my senior year of high school.

Love your post at Kim's.♥♥♥

Sherri said...

Rue, I never made it here for your birthday. Happy belated birthday my friend! I hope you had a grand time of it!

Jeannette said...

HAPPY (belated) BIRTHDAY RUE!!! I agree you don't look a day over 30! I disagree about the 50's though!lol 40's JUST PERFECT!!! HAVE FUN! Sincerely, Jeannette

BTW I was cracking up over your beagles face! Wonder what he/she is really thinking!?lol

The Quintessential Magpie said...

Rue!!!

I could scream! I missed your brithday! Arrrrrrgh!

Please know how much I love you and how I wish you ALL good things in this life. You are such a special person, and I celebrate your special day for the special gift you are to all of us. And you are, you know. Special beyond words.

Happy Birthday to one of my very favorite bloggers and friends. I'm so honored to get to call you that.

Love you MUCH!

XO,

Sheila :-)

Karen said...

Hope you have a wonderful birthday:)

Michelle said...

Happy Birthday Rue!!!

twizzis said...

Hope you had a very happy but belated birthday, my dear friend.

Cottage Contessa said...

Happy Birthday Rue, you gorgeous thing you! Wishing you the best year ahead yet!
Amanda (aka Cottage Contessa)

Jen R. said...

Happy birthday! You are gorgeous!!! You look 30!

xinex said...

Happy birthday, Rue! Looking back,, I know you have had a wonderful life and so much to thank for...Christine

KarenHarveyCox said...

Happy Birthday Rue,
I was just over at Kim's and read all about your beautiful home. I often think what a perfect couple you and your husband make.

Wishing you beautiful memories and new ones on this very special day.

Karen

Trixie said...

Happy Birthday to you!!!!

Trixie

Cyndi W said...

Happy Birthday Rue...Just some trivia for you. You share the same Birthday with Whoopi...not the Whoopi Cushion but Whoopi Goldberg. I was watching her on The View, and you should have seen what she came away with. I have never ion my life wished to be Whoopi (we have so many different view on life, love, just about everything) this is one day I wouldn't have minded being her. But Happy Birthday to you my sweet blogging friend and special Birthday request that you did not get that could come by way of gift certificate by a very grateful reader? You have lifted my spirits more time than I could ever tell you! Love, Cyndi

Rhoda @ Southern Hospitality said...

Happy Birthday, sweet Rue! (I'm late!). So happy you are blogging & 40 isn't old. You're beautiful, enjoy your weekend.

Sweet Cottage Dreams said...

Hi SWEET RUE! Happy Birthday beautiful friend!! Hey, I am late but why NOT drag out this monumental birthday, huh?!!!

I am thrilled to have read your story on our sweet Kim's blog - so cool!! So wonderful!! I am smiling big for you - can you see? Soooo excited that you have your old home and that you and Rich have beautifully made it not only a house but a HOME - filled with love, imagination and memories.

***here's to another 40 years...***

love ya,
becky

Sophee-a Laroo Bijoux and Sheri too said...

Happy Belated B~day...I am a 1969 baby too....so I turn 40 on Dec. 19th.

Look at all of your b~day wishes. Lots of bloggy love out there.

Your house is coming along beautifully and I just love your kitchen Island :)

Hugs~Sheri

Mom in High Heels said...

Drat, I'm late to the party, but I want to wish you a wonderful, wonderful year as I know Rich gave you a wonderful day. You are a lovely, sweet person and I'm so happy that I stumbled across your blog last year. I've not met you or Rich IRL, but I feel like we're friends. Hugs and kisses!

The Summer Kitchen Girls said...

Happy Birthday Rue! Loved seeing what you were as old as....I'm just a bit older...as a matter of fact - I took my first steps when John Glenn took his first steps on the moon....pretty cool! Glad you enjoyed your day!
Karla & Karrie too

carolyn said...

Found you though Daisy Cottage...found her through Layla at The Lettered Cottage.

Loved your post there and clicked to see what other fabulous things you've done with your home. Fantastic!

I can totally relate...I turned 40 earlier this year and am having the best time. Glad the same is true for you!!

Happy Belated-
Carolyn

Ruth said...

happy birthday WEEK! you are so beautiful!

tales from an oc cottage said...

Oh gosh! I am such a bum! I had no idea it was your birthday month! But really, Sassy Pants, you are a gift to all of us, every day! HB 2U!!!!! And if I was a millionaire, I have THE JAM make a b-day cd, just for you!

m ^..^

Farmgirl Paints said...

You rock 40 girl!! Congrats on your guest spot too. That's really exciting:)

kiakai/Kelly @ Much To Do With Nothing said...

Happy Birthday Rue!! 40 huh? You don't look 40. :) I had a 1 year old at 40. Miss you! I just found you. I can't wait to come back and read through your blog. I know... you know me. Always behind on everything. Well I'm catching up and getting with the program.
xoxoxo
Kelly/kiakai

decorator to the stars said...

GREAT BLOG, STOP BY & SAY HI, i'm from ohio also :) GIO HAPPPY B-DAY

Its So Very Cheri said...

I love all that you've done with your house. You should see my Sunday post of a house I fell in love with.

Cheri

Diane@A Picture is Worth.... said...

Happy belated birthday Rue!

Pat @ Mille Fiori Favoriti said...

Happy 40th Rue!
It seems that very good things happened 40 years ago and that they keep getting better with age. :-)
I'm 16 years ahead of you so take it from me ...the best is yet to come! Enjoy it all!

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}

Pat

jeanne said...

Happy Birthday dear Rue. Forty years young and you look way younger. Your birthday post is wonderful and I love your family photos. Memories like this are very special, just like you.

I am looking forward to your guest post at Daisy Cottage. I know for sure, it WILL be worth reading.

Congrats on you birdhouse winner. Lucky girl. Your birdhouses are so well done.

I am leaving now for Daisy cottage and the posts I have missed. I am always playing catch up these days. I miss you and I hate missing your posts.

Love you, Jeanne
xoxoxo

Jen Kershner said...

Happy Birthday Rue. You are rocking 40!

Draffin Bears said...

Happy Birthday dear Rue, I hope that it will be filled with lots of love and happiness.
May it be the start of a great year ahead.

Birthday hugs
Carolyn xo

{Bellamere Cottage} said...

Happy....HAPPY Birthday Rue! Oh my yes....you are still YOUNG.... with loads and loads of wonderful things ahead.

God bless you...and may this year be filled to the brim with wonderment...

xoxoxox
Spence

FHL said...

Happy Belated Birthday Rue!!

Looks like your hubby made sure it was extra special! :o) All the pictures from your trip are gorgeous!

Sending a hug!
M~